How to Deal with Difficult People

Rule:  People who are difficult to talk with are almost always not worth the effort.

I was raised to believe that we should be nice to everyone.  I was later educated to believe that we can learn something from everyone.  I guess if you put these together what you get is that everyone has something useful and interesting inside them, and even if it is difficult, we should tease it out.  We should give everyone the opportunity to demonstrate their inner worthiness.  Think about the crusty academic who never really mastered social skills, but is brilliant in his field.

Do those people exist?  Absolutely.  I have met plenty of people like this, and yes, learned something from them.

But at some point I realized that never really mastered social skills was not some benign little flaw.  The sort of shortcoming that should be overlooked because of their brilliance.  If they have not mastered basic social skills it is because they do not care about basic social skills.  And that almost always means they do not care about...you.

And of course, that is absolutely fine if they are Albert Einstein.  But what if they're not?  What if they are some mediocre academic?  Or your roommate?  Your neighbor?  I mean, how many people are Albert Einstein?  If you live next to Steve Jobs, and he's a jerk, it's understandable, even forgivable.  But if you live next to Fred Smith?  That is something altogether different.  And let's be honest, most of us are Fred Smith.

So if someone is difficult to talk with, you have a cost-benefit analysis to run in your head.  Ask yourself, what are the odds that this person is worth the effort to overcome his or her rudeness to discover their inner light?  If you are the generous type, you might also ask yourself, what are the odds that this brilliant (or charming) person is just having a bad day?  Because of course we all do on occasion.

So will you sometimes answer the question incorrectly?  No doubt.  Sometimes you will ignore a rude brilliant person.  And hopefully less often, you will engage with a rude mediocre person.

We only have so much time.  Personally, I'd rather risk making the first error.

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Memo to Conservatives

Banana Republic Rules

Just yesterday, the sitting US president approved, and probably ordered, a raid on the home of the immediate past US president, who importantly also happens to be a contender to unseat that same sitting president.  Got that?  When did the US become Paraguay?

On the pretext of looking for classified documents, this was obviously a fishing expedition designed to intimidate Trump, and others.  I mean dear reader, what would they find if they pulled fifteen boxes of documents out of your house?  There'd be something.  What if we could pull fifteen boxes of documents out of the Clinton's house?  And they forced Trump's attorneys to leave.  Why?  So how can we ever be certain the political thugs that we call the FBI did not plant evidence?  How sad it is that, in the past few years, the FBI has tossed its once sterling reputation.

For many years, I have advised residents of blue cities across the US to flee.  This was, and is, the only rational course of action for those residents.  Take your family, your business, your vote, your taxes, even your mere presence, and go somewhere else.  But when the Democrat machine takes over the country, to where is one supposed to flee?

It seems to me that the current situation in the US leads to one of two possibilities.  First, conservatives can submit to lefty rule.  Let's call this the European path.  We will not like it, but it does offer a more leisurely lifestyle.  After all, why work hard for other people, other people's families, and the government power elite?  Sit back and relax.  Retire early, find a hobby.  Take up needlepoint.  Maybe stock up on a few necessities.

Of course, like our European friends, you'll have less children because you cannot afford them.  You'll pay seven dollars a gallon for gasoline, if you are even able to afford a vehicle.  Our open-border country will be swarming with illegal aliens.  Taxes will be confiscatory.  Climate change will become a continuous emergency giving government types every excuse they need to do anything they want.  Oh, and you might want to brush up on modern pronoun usage.

Sound familiar?  Yes of course, this is the default path we are currently on.

But the other path is even less appealing.  It involves fighting for our values.  Here, I do not mean a political fight within our system.  Our system is broken.  Now let's stop for a moment:  How do I know this for sure?  Because the left does not fear the precedent they just set.  Stop and think about that.  Would they take this reckless action if they had any fear that it could, in turn, be used against them?  No, they will never allow, could never allow, a raid on the homes of the Clinton's or the Biden's.

In any case the left is immune to consequences.  After the Hunter Biden laptop farce, and Hillary Clinton's numerous shenanigans, they know a complicit press makes them immune to any consequences for any malfeasance.  Further, they have politicized all agencies of the federal government to do their bidding.  At this point their impunity is comical, but at the same time vital for their continued hold on power.

I think we should carefully consider what it means for them not to fear the precedent.  It means they fully intend to remain in power.  Indefinitely and regardless of what it takes to do so.  They will lie, cheat, and steal.  They will intimidate.  They will raid their opponents homes and offices.  How long before they shut down television networks and political websites?  I mean, that Tucker Carlson and all his disinformation.  Ultimately they will be arresting their political opponents like all self-respecting banana republics.

So what does fighting for our values look like?  Can we not use our constitutional framework to constrain our burgeoning banana republic?  Well, all banana republics have constitutions.  And all banana republics ignore their respective constitutions.  Antonin Scalia reminded us that a constitution is a mere parchment guarantee, easily ignored, especially with single-party rule.  When there is concentration of power in one person or in one party, Scalia says...when that happens, the game is over.  He was referring to the constitutional process.

So here's the real question:  Is our constitutional process over?  You must decide for yourself.  Many good conservatives will argue that of course, it's not over.  The conservative tendency is to follow and fulfill our constitutional mandates.  The problem with this thinking is that it does not appreciate how much animosity there is for the Constitution on the left.  Obama called it a charter of negative liberties.  They hate the constraints it places on government.  And you know, of course, without such constraints, the left could use government to usher in a new utopia.  So, many left-of-center types would be thrilled to scrap it.  You've heard the arguments:  Replace it with a modern, living constitution.  What they really want is a constitution more malleable to their ever-changing whims.

Whims masquerading as policy goals.  But don't make the mistake of assuming that the left cares about policy.  They only care about policy insofar as it helps them achieve and maintain power.  Good policy is not the goal; power is the goal.  Lofty-sounding policy is only a tool.  If they make a policy mess, so be it.  Look at healthcare, look at the economy, look at immigration, look at our foreign policy.  So what the left really wants is a constitution that helps them achieve and maintain power.  A constitution that allows them to do as they please.  Short of this, the left is more than happy to simply ignore the current Constitution.

Here's my point:  The conservative tendency to adhere to a constitution that the left ignores has led us to where we are today.  If the left is in charge of both the executive and the legislative branches of our government, and has fully politicized the Department of Justice, and is willing to use armed government agents as political operatives, all the while provided cover by a complicit press, and if they are willing to simply ignore the Constitution, then yes, the constitutional process is over.

Ignoring the constitution is the hallmark of a banana republic...

All this to ask conservatives this question:  In a banana republic, what is the process for transfer of power?  Because that is how we will have to fight for our values.  That is the only other path.

We must deploy Banana Republic Rules.

Fans of John Le Carré will recognize the terminology.  In his 1979 classic, Smiley's People, Moscow Rules refer to tactics to be deployed in the most dangerous theaters.  Here, I simply mean that if your opponent is the government of a banana republic, you have to fight with a different set of rules.

I'll let the reader define these for himself, but clearly they are necessarily extraconstitutional.

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The Questions of Our Time

Questions and Consequences

Imagine the morality of compelling everyone to take an untested drug only to later discover that its efficacy is extremely low or even nonexistent.  That would be bad enough if you knew the drug was perfectly harmless.  But what if you have no idea whatsoever.

What kind of people do such a thing?

One argument these people use is that while the vaccines may not prevent one from contracting the disease, they do lessen the severity.  No small thing.  But if the vaccines do little or nothing on the prevention front, no one should care if someone else has taken the vaccine or not – Because the severity of a disease, one may or may not contract, makes no difference to anyone, other than the individual patient.  So this is an argument for individual choice, not compulsion.

And yet, why have so many people wanted to deny others this choice?

I do not for one minute think these people care about the health of strangers.  If they did care in the least, they would want to know more about the drugs they are forcing on others.  So no, let's not pretend they care.  I have made the argument before that this is about simple obedience.

Again, what kind of people are we talking about here?

All of them?  I mean, can it really be all of them?

One final question:  What percentage of Germans supported Hitler's policies?  Whether they actively participated or not, what percentage supported what he was doing?

The totalitarians who enacted these Covid policies should be charged with abuse of office.  That's easy.  As to the argument that they legitimately enacted emergency powers?  I think that is a question for a jury.  What did they know and when did they know it?  These are questions of fact, not law.  Here's another question of fact:  Were their actions driven by legitimate emergency necessity, or simply unbridled lust for power?

Further, it is also clear that many of these so-called emergency actions were unconstitutional.  It matters not what the respective state constitutions or city charters specify.  There is no US constitutional allowance for the suspension of the First Amendment right of freedom of assembly.  If you think such a power is warranted, fine.  You are welcome to amend the Constitution.

The more difficult question is what to do with the rest of you?

If you supported lockdowns and mandates and masking...you should be ashamed.  And you should be shamed.  Because Gretchen Whitmer and Gavin Newsom and your local school board did not act alone.  They acted with the support of millions.

Yes, I realize this support ranged from skeptical, to moderate, to enthusiastic, to downright overzealous.  But there needs to be consequences for that support, and any role you may have played in enacting and enforcing these policies.

Some of you committed fraud, some harassment, and some only wrongful termination (which is not a crime as far as I know).  Many of you violated HIPAA privacy rules.  Many of you loudly scolded and shamed your neighbors going about their business at the grocery store.  It is also not a crime to be a vile, reprehensible human being.  Although it is worth knowing.  And the more widely known, the better.

We cannot charge you as mere supporters.  So...we need a sort of truth commission.  And we need to put your names on a list.  Something akin to the Sex Offenders List.  We can call it the Lockdown List or some such.  If it were up to me, I'd call it the Obedience Enforcers List or the Covid Obedience Collaborators List.

Covid Collaborators for short.  That's got an appropriate historical ring to it.

I think what we need is a sort of Covid Collaborators Wiki-like website where we can name individuals and organizations, with photos, and details of their collaborations.  Like all Wiki sites, anyone can add and edit.  But let's get the details out there.  Finally, we should house it in the only country that I know of that behaved rationally during the pandemic, Sweden.  Or better yet, somewhere beyond the reach of the US government and the lefty tech establishment.  So Sweden...or Nigeria.

As for libel laws, I don't think that's a problem if we house it in Nigeria.  But we could head off claims of libel by requiring entries to be confirmed by some number of people.  So for example, perhaps we require three or more people to add an entry.  Three is not enough?  Make it more.  For those of you who acted in a grievous manner, I don't think we will have trouble finding multiple witnesses.  You were so shameless and self-righteous in your actions.

In any case, all of you belong on it.

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Baxter Black at his Finest

Baxter Black, former large animal veterinarian, died earlier this month.  He will be missed.

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All-Cause Mortality?

What are the long term effects of vaccines?

Here's a phrase I had never heard:  All-cause mortality.

I had to listen carefully to understand what she is saying.  But it is crucial.  As Christine Stabell Benn explains it, all-cause mortality has never been studied in any vaccination approval process.  Certainly not with the new mRNA vaccines.

Here's how she concludes:

Unknown to most people, none of the vaccines that we use today in vaccination programs globally were assessed for their effects on overall health before they were introduced.  Everybody was so sure at that time that vaccines did nothing but protect against the vaccine disease, so it didn't seem necessary to test them for other effects.  So once it was proven that the vaccines protected against the vaccine disease, well then any kind of assessment stopped.

Since the rollouts, I have wondered why the researchers seemed so cavalier about the long term effects of the Covid vaccines.  Now I understand that they just don't care.  At least they don't have a history of caring.  Trust the science?  Well maybe.  But think twice about the scientists.  And their companies?  Get real.

Like many people before Covid, I used to think of the anti-vaccine types as a bit nutty.  I mean, can it really be possible that vaccines, or at least some vaccine, causes autism?  Or contributes to it?  I would ask also about peanut allergies, which basically did not exist when I was a kid.  My grade school cafeterias served peanut butter sandwiches to everyone round about once a month.  Something in the last fifty years has caused this.  And I don't think it's global warming.  I don't even think it's neurotic parents.

Turns out, no one knows because no one studies this stuff.  That is, vaccine effects on overall health.  We know nothing about the long term effects of any of the Covid vaccines.  Long term, as in beyond, what, twenty months?

I also wonder if the vaccine Nazis will turn out to be worse than the actual German Nazis?  The dynamics are the same.  Would not surprise me one bit.

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The Islands of Misfit American Men

What type of American man comes to the Philippines?

I used to eat lunch in a small Filipino-American cafe.  Everyday, for years.  It was owned by a Filipina-American who became a friend of mine.  She had quite a few Filipina girlfriends who would also frequent the place.  Pretty ladies, all married to American men.  The owner had met her husband when he served in the Philippines in the US military (I forget the branch).  This was also true for some of the other Filipinas.  But a good number of them had done the penpal, and later internet dating, thing to meet their husbands.

At some point, the future husband had traveled to the Philippines and returned home with his bride or bride-to-be.  Well over time, I also met a number of the husbands.  Like I said, I ate lunch in this place for years.  I don't remember any of the husbands specifically; they were all pretty unremarkable.  But I can tell you that, and this was only my personal sense, they were all a bit awkward, socially awkward.  No big deal, and at the time, I did not give it any thought whatsoever.

After a few years, one of these ladies introduced me to one of her single Filipina girlfriends.  I'll skip the details, but ten years later, this gal, now my wife, and I, moved to the Philippines.

There's a lot to notice living in a foreign country.  I've written here about some of it.  But one thing I noticed for sure was other Americans.  All men.  They do stand out here.  Why?  It's not what you might imagine.

There is something odd about these men.  All of them.  Let me give you the rundown of the typical American man in the Philippines:

• He is socially awkward.  This is the primary characteristic of these men.
• He is not handsome, certainly not in any western sense.
• He is not financially successful.
• He is low status, socially.  Broadly speaking (job, education, family, background, etc.)
• He could not find a wife in the US, or his wife left him.  Basically American women did not want him.

Yet here, these same guys can find a well-above-average looking (by American standards) wife who is kind and loyal.  She is most often younger than the man, sometimes quite a bit younger, and occasionally obscenely younger.  The poor Filipinas don't know any better.  I am not saying they're stupid; they just have no basis of comparison.  That's why the men come here.  They don't have to compete with above average American men.  They don't even have to compete with average American men.  Some of these guys will return to the states with their brides.  But a good number of them stay here.

Look, none of the above make him a bad guy.  I'm not saying that.  But this is such a noticeable reality that there's no sense in denying it.  And there's so many of them.  Yet needless to say, nobody talks about this.

Sure, sure, this cannot apply to all American men in the Philippines, right?  Well when I meet one who does not fall into this stereotype, I'll let you know.

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The Most Politically Incorrect Piece Ever Posted to the Internet

The West has nothing important to learn from the rest of the world

If you travel to India, you might learn to prepare the world's best curry.  But you will certainly not learn any proper kitchen hygiene practices.  There's nothing wrong with bringing excellent curry to the West.  But that pales in comparison to the importance of western-level hygiene and sanitation.  And we're certainly not about to take civics lessons from India.  They cannot even form an orderly line.

Let's define what we mean by the West.  It is such a limited sphere that we can define it geographically, almost by country.  It is the US and Canada, Western Europe as far east as Germany, Austria, the Adriatic Sea, and Greece.  And it is Australia and New Zealand.  And Israel.  That's it.  Yes, yes, there are some outposts (in the Caribbean, Polynesia, the Falklands, etc).  And some of these are more western than others.  But let's not get caught in the weeds here...

Because the West is not primarily a geographical construct.  It is the Judeo-Christian tradition.  Democracy, capitalism, private enterprise, free markets, common law, an independent judiciary, respect for contracts and private property, due process, civilian military control, individual rights, including equal rights for women and minorities, personal agency, free speech and a free press, etc.  Also, an appreciation for education, literature, and the arts.  The scientific method is a product of the West.

I would also argue that the West has traditionally placed a high value on truth, although this ideal is currently under attack.  But there can be no doubt that truth and integrity are western values.  If you doubt me on this, you just need to do a bit of traveling.

Now, let me add this truly controversial statement:  The success of non-western countries entirely depends on the extent of their adoption of western ideas and practices.  The more western they become, the more successful they are.  The best example here is Hong Kong.  Extremely western until 2000.  And extremely successful.  Now under the thumb of China, it is less western and less successful.  I also believe that Japan, Korea, Taiwan, and Singapore offer illustrative examples of this rule.  And look at what's happened in Eastern Europe.  Countries that have enthusiastically adopted western practices have done well.

Let's look at China.  Communism did not make it rich.  Its corrupt government did not make it rich.  Its demographics did not make it rich.  No, it became rich only once it began adopting western practices.  Now think about how rich it could be.

But it is Turkey where we find the most interesting example of this rule.  Mustafa Kemal Ataturk introduced western style reforms in the early 20th century.  Turkey thrived, joining NATO in 1952.  But more recently, and certainly under the presidency of Recep Erdogan, the country has slid back into the clutches of Islamism and authoritarianism.  It's a choice.

This rule applies to all countries, western and non-western alike.

If a society does not want to adopt western ideas and practices, fine.  But they will remain poor.  If a society tolerates a corrupt government, they will remain poor.  One thing I have learned living in the third world is that corruption is not limited to the elites.  It is a cultural phenomenon.  If a society has a culture of dishonesty, it will remain poor.  Again, fine.  They can either adopt western attitudes about corruption, and integrity, or they can remain poor.  Again yes, I am saying it is a choice.

If you doubt my thesis here, just compare the countries I include in the West, and importantly the countries I have listed as adopting western practices, with any other country.  Japan is rich.  Its neighbors not so much.  Japan is richer than China.  Why?  Because it is more western.  Likewise, China is richer than Pakistan for the same reason.

There are a handful of countries where my rule does not apply.  These are the countries that have become rich by chance alone.  Oil.  Saudi Arabia and its ilk.  But these are the exceptions that prove the rule.  These countries are completely dysfunctional.  They cannot even get their own oil out of the ground.  They have to pay westerners to do it.  Dubai may have the tallest building in the world (designed by a Chicago architect and built by a Korean firm).  But they do not have a working sewer system.  Just think about how that works exactly.

I have no time for western academics who argue that the third world is poor for reasons beyond their own control.  Guns, germs, and steel to quote the title of the most famous book on this topic.  Colonialism, they all shout.  Leftist academics will blame everything except for the one true problem:  Culture.

The leftists' motive is clear.  If they acknowledge that third world culture perpetuates poor nations, they would also be forced to acknowledge that western culture produces rich nations.  The horror; the entire leftist world view would collapse.

Finally, remember this rule applies to all countries.  It is interesting to note that as western countries import and adopt non-western values and ideas, they will become less wealthy.  In both absolute and relative terms.  Certainly as they devalue truth, they will become poorer.  Surely today we are seeing this in real time in the US, Europe, Australia, and New Zealand.

Again, fine.  It's a choice.

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What is a Woman?

If you cannot answer this simple question, how can we trust you about anything?

This is shameful.  The idea that we have to ask, What is a woman?, is shameful enough.  But the fact that politicians cannot or will not answer this ridiculously simple question is just beyond shameful.

Watch this video.  Here is how it ends:

To ask a politician the question, What is a woman?, isn’t a gotcha.  Because they know the answer.  And they know that we know that they know the answer.  It isn’t that they can’t define it.  It’s that they’re too scared to define it because they’ve been so cowed and intimidated by activists.  It would be one thing if these politicians had bought into gender identity ideology to such an extent that they no longer believe in biological sex differences.  I mean, that would be deranged but at least it would be forgivable.  But that’s not what’s happening here.

While most of us have a limited understanding of various key political issues, we can all see that a failure to define woman is either delusional or dishonest.  Neither of which are qualities that we seek in our elected representatives.  The question, What is a woman?, has become a litmus test.  It’s not a gotcha, it’s not transphobic, it’s a means by which we can assess the honesty of the ruling class.  And if they can’t speak openly about the things we all know to be true, we won’t be able to trust them when it comes to anything else.

And that's the real point isn't it?  When you understand this, the What is a woman? question becomes a lot less ridiculous.  The real question is one of trust.  Anyone who says, you are playing word games with an unserious question, well, they are simply attempting to take the focus off the question of trust.  Don't let them.

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Attendant Self-Containment

First came a reassessment of the people surrounding me.  A largely voluntary post-fifty purge.  An indelicate word, but that's what it was.  Then came the expulsion from my family.  Followed by the long overdue estrangement.  It was not entirely coincidental that I then married a woman who loves me unconditionally.  We moved to my wife's home country.  It was the right decision for us.  The point is, for better or worse, I have been losing or removing people from my life for a few years now.

But I did have a few remaining friends.  Then just before we left the US, I lost a couple more.  Long time friends, from high school.  One because our friendship could only exist on her erratic and capricious terms.  Only if and when she fancied it.  She's a fiction writer with an artist's flair and bohemian demeanor.  And that has always given her license to be flaky and flighty.  But more recently, she became so blithely unreliable and unstable that our relationship was simply untenable.  The second, well I'm afraid that the first took the second with her.  I admire his loyalty.  But sadly, that was the end of that.

It is interesting to note that these were my last two politically left-of-center friends.  I did not set out to remove left-of-center people from my life.  But a few years ago I did make the decision not to add any.  The simple fact is this:  No matter where they fall on the left-of-center political spectrum, these people do not share my values.  At this point I think it is fair to say, if I cannot trust people politically, I cannot trust them personally.  In any case, I choose not to.  I just can no longer believe that there are good people who happen to be on the left.  I actually believe just the opposite:  If you are left-of-center, and support left-of-center candidates and causes, you are not a good person.

Losing my last two left-of-center friends made this revelation possible.  I do realize that some will find this an extreme position.  But if you have read this journal since the start of the Covid lockdowns, you will know why.  Today we have CRT, equity rather than equality, gender identity, cancel culture, censorship, anti-semitism, climate change, a ridiculous energy policy, open borders, dollar devaluation, complete educational collapse, etc.  Left-of-center types either directly or tacitly support all of this nonsense.  Gender-affirming surgery for the prepubescent?  That's not mere nonsense; it's evil.  The way the Left handled Covid, politicians and voters alike, has been shameful.

The idea that these policies are misguided but well intentioned is simply not believable.  Rather, the Left has gone fully progressive.  And as David Horowitz points out:  Inside every progressive is a totalitarian screaming to get out.  Both the politicians and their voters – Just look at the mask nazis.  They're all drunk with power.  They seem to have forgotten what the word liberal means.  Or, they simply do not care.  Every last one of them.  And I've had it.  It's shameful and I no longer want anything to do with these miscreants.

I want to be crystal clear about this.  There are many bad people on the Right.  An often unkind and intolerant religious fundamentalism, true racists, and other assorted bigots.  But there are absolutely no good people on the Left.  And yes, I am fully aware that many people on the Left feel exactly the same about those of us on the Right.  But here's the thing:  We cannot both be correct.  Either the Left's view of the world is correct.  Or, the Right's view is correct.  Pick your side.  Because going forward, there will be war before we get back to the idea of compromise.

I had thought that my remaining friendships were strong, but I now wonder if they are not rather fragile and ultimately dischargeable.  I mean, with my attitude outlined above, some will say, you do this to yourself.  Quite right.

I am responsible for this.  I am simply ill-equipped to develop and maintain relationships in general, and friendships in particular.  I have tried to change.  And I will keep trying.  But I fear it is a lost cause.  I was broken too early to be salvageable.

This is not an excuse.  Rather I just don't have the skill set.  And try as I might, I am not sure I ever will.  Don't get me wrong, I can and do live by these rules.  But I don't seem to be able to maintain friendships.

As with anything, at some point, you get used to it.  And I have become accustomed to losing people.  The details don't really matter.  Sometimes there are clear reasons.  Other times, the reasons are vague.  The only thing that matters is that people are lost.

I have my wife.  I am so thankful for her.  I suppose it is cliche to say it, but she is my best friend.

The others are lost.  I lost them.  Some by choice; some by negligence.

I am not seeking violins here.  I will live with the consequences.  So we, my wife and I, are now self-contained.  Perhaps reluctantly, but necessarily.

Okay.

We'll make do.

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Trashy America

Will Smith, Chris Rock, and the Rules of the Street

I remember Will Smith from the Fresh Prince days.  I did not really watch the show, but I would see it occasionally, and Smith was indeed very funny.  But he really came to my attention with the 1993 film Six Degrees of Separation.  His performance was dazzling.  But over the last thirty years, I stopped going to the movies.  And I rarely see any of the blockbusters or blockbuster-wannabe's that command the likes of the movie star that Will Smith has become.  The one exception was the 2007 film I Am Legend.  It was no Six Degrees, but it was another excellent performance and, at the time, an interesting script.  Today I would argue that I Am Legend is a must see film, especially for all the little Covid totalitarians.

In any case, to the extent that I think about movies and Hollywood, which is very little, I have always maintained a high opinion of Smith as an actor.  Of course, as with all actors, I have no idea of what kind of man he is.  I am vaguely aware that he and his wife have some sort of unconventional marriage.  But I don't follow any of that closely enough to know the details.

I don't think I have ever watched the Academy Awards.  Perhaps once as an adolescent.  And Sunday night was no exception.  The truth is, I did not even know it was happening.  And even now, I would not typically know that it had happened.  Except that, within hours, it appeared on my favorite website, Instapundit.  Even there I would have ignored it but for the fact that this is not the sort of material that normally appears on the site.  So something highly unusual must have happened.  Earthquake was my first thought.

No need to rehash the details here.

Now, if you have an occasion to spend time with our criminal elements in their natural habitat, I would like to give you one little piece of advice on how to comport yourself.  Be respectful.  Not obsequious, just respectful.  If circumstances call for firmness, fine, be respectfully firm.  To everyone.  Especially to those who don't deserve it.  Why?  Because respect is a big deal in these quarters and any perceived disrespect may lead to violence.  If you are a big guy with a gun, maybe it does not matter.  But if you are a small guy with no gun, use some common sense.  Oh and one more thing, leave your wife at home.

Is it right?  Maybe not.  But hey, this is the street.  And they have their own rules.  When in Rome....

Besides, when you get back home, to your safe neighborhood, in your safe, law-abiding community, you can get back to your normal self.  You can hit that new restaurant that just opened, maybe take in a movie, visit the wine bar on Main Street.  Or hey, maybe a comedy club.  And you don't have to worry about the rules of the street.

Right?

Well no.  In America in 2022, the rules of the street are now just the rules.

I did not care enough to write about this incident until I noticed who was getting all the support.  And it was not Chris Rock.  So it's not only that Will Smith is a thug who lives by the rules of the street, it is that most Americans are on his side.

And don't think I'm letting women off the hook here.  There is no doubt that Smith was egged on by his wife.  She felt aggrieved by a comedian, so she sent her man to defend her honor.  Violently.  She loved it; of course she did.  I have witnessed this dynamic myself, and it is becoming more common.  Can there be any doubt that America is in cultural regression?

I heard Jesse Watters on Fox News ask:  What if instead of Will Smith, it had been, say for instance, Mel Gibson?  Would Americans be equally supportive of a white man attacking a black man over a harmless joke?  Where is the real privilege?

And yes, it was harmless.  Perhaps ill-chosen, but certainly not malicious.  The fact that Will and Jada Pinkett Smith did not recognize this immediately, and their graceless response, speaks volumes about their character.  And the character of all of their supporters.

Graceless?  Let's call it what it is:  Trashy.  I can think of no other word for it.

No one doubts how beautiful she is.  Certainly not Chris Rock.  One possible graceful response?  Jada should have stood up and taken a bow.  Given the fact that most people in that room seemed to know that she has alopecia, she would have received a standing ovation.  Look, it's simple baldness, not cancer; but never-mind that.  Instead she showed us her all too common ugly side.  Her genuine side.

Sadly, this whole episode is a vivid reflection of America in 2022.

I have said it before and I will say it again:  These are not my people.

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