There are a number of places where women do not belong, or collectively lower the standards. Of competence, efficiency, and/or safety. The best example I can think of is an oil rig. Women do not belong there. Is it not just so convenient that they do not really want to work there?
But there are plenty of men's spaces where women do want to be. They are never as dangerous or as dirty as an oil rig. But women view them as somehow beneficial for themselves. We will come back to this, but first, current events demand that we talk about the game.
The Game Women Play
I really do not care how women dress. But to pretend that they do not dress provocatively, intentionally, in certain spaces is ridiculous. It is a game for them; a sly power game. It works like this: If a man approaches a woman, and she finds him attractive, well, then she is pleased that her provocative outfit did the trick. If another man approaches her, and she finds him unattractive, then regardless of what she is wearing, he is creepy and he makes her uncomfortable. And she will noisily call out his misadventure and mal-intent.
I first noticed the weaponization of the term uncomfortable ten or fifteen years back. The problem with the label uncomfortable is that it can be applied to almost anything or any action however benign. And because it is personally subjective, one cannot argue against it. This has only gotten worse.
Anyway, this is why women are so mad at Shane Gillis for joking that they dress like whores in the gym. He called out the game. Men, it seems, are supposed to just keep quiet about it. To call it out is sexist, or worse. To joke about it is tantamount to sexual assault. Are we really supposed to take these women seriously? They have belittled and beclowned themselves.
But it goes well beyond outfits. This game is the general attitude that women possess towards men today. Men can be forgiven for tiring of it. Some blame feminism; I personally have no idea where this came from. But I do not believe it predates the Second World War. There was a time when the sexes treated each other better. There was a respect and etiquette to the relationship dance. This seems to have eroded since mid-century. Today, like etiquette more generally, it seems completely lost.
Respect and etiquette have been replaced with hookup culture and the game. The whole dance is more transactional, less serious, and yes, ripe for gaming. Women take relationship advice from Alex Cooper.
But the game is terribly unfair for men. And so many of them no longer want to play. Women can do as they please and act as they please. But surely men should be able to escape; at least occasionally. In order to stop the nonsense, let's bring back some men-only spaces.
Someone should open a men-only gym or even a chain of men-only gyms. Not all gyms need be men-only, but men should have the option of not participating in the female games.
Of course, women would immediately pressure the gym to open membership to women. Somehow men-only spaces seem to threaten women and women's rights. And too many men accept this precept. I urge resistance. When you are talking about a men-only gym, the only reason women want to be there is to play the game.
Let's consider a few other scenarios where women have installed themselves.
Women reporters on NFL game sidelines and in men's lockers rooms. They have nothing to add and no one wants them there; they just want to be there. And that alone is not a good enough reason for them to be there. No, it is not.
Women in the boardrooms and C-Suites. I realize this is debatable, but consider their collective record. It is underwhelming.
Women do not need to be members of all men's athletic clubs. Why cannot Augusta National remain a men-only club?
Should women really be police officers? Regardless of the answer, the question should probably be discussed. Here I mean, cops on the street. I see no problem if a woman wants to join the FBI.
Taxi drivers, long haul truckers, airline pilots, fine, women can do all of that. But do women belong on trading floors? I tend to doubt it.
Why do the boy scouts need girls? Do the girl scouts need boys? The idea is ridiculous.
So are we conflating women's relationship games with women's equality? First, I would say it is less about women's equality, and more about women's ability to perform at a level equal to men. Can women be as effective as men as a beat cop? The idea is absurd. Is it merit or is it mere inclusion? What ties all this together is women's need to be everywhere men are. To answer the question posed in the title: No, women do not belong everywhere. Other cultures understand this.
Let's return to the game. One might ask, what about the predatory Andrew Tate and his ilk in the so-called manosphere? I have previously discussed these charlatans. They play their own games. And I think that these respective game players are most likely to meet each other. Or more accurately, collide with each other. Likely as not, in the gym. Where they all get exactly what they deserve.
Of course, Alex Cooper and Andrew Tate deserve each other. But the fallout is the Cornell Seven. Or what Megyn Kelly rightfully calls the Cornell Eight. Because Jane Doe was just playing her game, as the men were playing their own. They too deserve each other. The societal collision was inevitable. There will be more.
Finally, if you view this piece as sexist, that is not my intention. But if you find it so, I am okay with that as well. Like racist, antisemitic, homophobic, etc., I could not care less what you call me. Why not just go find something, anything, you are good at? And leave the rest of us, both men and women, in peace.




